The Things That Should Not Be There
When I got saved and started reading my Bible, the first thing that started happening to me was I started seeing my character in the light of God. It's like going to a doctor, and you look good on the outside until you stand in front of an x-ray machine. Then you start to see the things inside you that shouldn't be there. That's what the Word of God does.
For example, the Word of God says, "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her."
Start there, sir, if you're having trouble in your marriage. Allow the Holy Spirit to remove your heart's selfishness and lust. Ask yourself if you love your wife according to the scriptures, and if you don't, turn from what you are and let God make you into the man you should be. That's how the Kingdom of God starts: reading the Word of God and prayer.
It's time to pray.